Amy Zents Shy Singer Series: When you want to learn chords, don't just learn three.

Music is like nature and it is made up of many colors

When you decide to learn to play chords, consider your ears. Your musical ears. Here is a link to explanations of chords and how they are comprised. Learn to differentiate between the variety of chords and how the tones are expressed. Learn to understand how chords are built and all they can do to embellish your music. Jazz is a very popular genre of music because it stretches the limits of how chords are used.

Enjoy and use your talent as a force for creativity and not boring sameness!!!

You will enjoy this page very much on formulating chords! Have at it Shy Singer and be ahead of the rest!

http://mugglinworks.com/chordmaps/part4.htm

Keep Singing!

Amy Zents

PS. "Nothing is pleasant that is not spiced with variety." -Francis Bacon

Amy Zents Shy Singer Series: Jangled Nerves and Butterflies Could Be A Sign

It's easier to perform with a partner than alone

So you are about to perform and you are shy, and really, really nervous. What's a singer to do?
I think the best thing you should do is PRACTICE PAUSING. What this means is, take a moment or two to breathe deeply, and calm down.
Try to get to the gig early. Gauge your audience. Is it big or is it small? Or in between?
Also, get to know the space you will be performing in.
Look the way you want to look. Present your image at it's best. You be in control.
You will love being the centre of attention. I guarantee it. You just need some help to get going.
Unless you are playing for an audience of jealous contemporaries, your audience wants you to win!
So, if you've rehearsed enough, and you've made enough progress to be engaged at a gig, it's time to get on with the show!
Don't let jangled nerves and butterflies be a sign that you are ill-prepared and don't know what the heck you are doing.
If that is the case, then stay home!
If you are only nervous because you are afraid to perform in public, well then, that is a horse of a different color.
You can do it, and with the experience you got in doing it, the next time it will be easier.
Remember, you are doing it for the love of the music. Try not to be so SELF-conscious. In fact, studies show people who are shy are often perceived as being SELFISH!
We know that is not really the case. So, swallow your pride and show them what you've got!
I'm smiling and cheering for you! :-)

Keep singing,

Amy Zents

PS. 'Faint heart never won fair lady!'" - Ancient Proverb

Amy Zents Shy Singer Series: A Hidden Mistake Most Amateur Singers Make

                                            Breathe in, Sing out, and Don't strain your voice


Hi,
Today I am going to address the hidden mistake most amateur singers make.What I mean when I write "hidden" is that most amateur singers are often unconscious of this error. It has to do with the singing tone. In my last blog I wrote about intonation, or singing in tune. You want to sing in tune, to train your ears to be able to carry a tune. It goes without saying a good singer can carry a tune.
Today we are addressing your singing tone.
A good singer is not stuck in head voice where all the sound is emitting from the head and throat. A good singer incorporates unified registers of both head and chest voice, a blending of the resonators of the head and chest areas for a full and energetic tone.
This is especially true when singing in the oh-so-popular belting style that most pop and country, and of course, musical theatre singers sing in today.
So, don't rely only on your throat when you sing. Use your entire instrument. You are a wind instrument.
Toot your horn and don't hold back!
If you sing like a baby with a light head voice you are not doomed to that singing style alone.
Exercise your voice daily. Build your tone. Breath in and sustain your tone.
The art of "Bel canto" or the art of "beautiful singing" is based on diaphragmatic singing, or singing from your diaphragm.
In with the good air, out with the bad air!
Good singing also means articulating words in a way people can understand them, and using the larynx and pharynx in projecting your voice out. Sing out, don't strain, and you'll shine!

                                                         Shine on Singer, Shine On!


Keep Singing!

Amy Zents

P.S. "Courage is resistance to fear, the mastery of fear, not the absence of fear."  -  Mark Twain


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Amy Zents Shy Singer Series: How to Practice

"Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy." - Norman V. Peale


I am not a big believer in marathon vocal sessions. You don't want to tire your voice. It is vital however, to do vocal warm-ups. There are many available online.

Here is one I suggest: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yvb4Rl21-UY

Reserve anywhere from 20 min. to an hour to daily singing practice.
I also suggest if you want to build your lung capacity you blow up a balloon, and incorporate some aerobic exercise into your daily plan.

                               "Don't be a run of the mill person: Find your passion and follow it.
                                     That is the key to perpetual bliss!" (Quote by Amy Zents)

Keep Singing!
Amy Zents

P.S. "If you don't design your own life plan, chances are you'll fall into some else's plan. And guess what they have planned for you? Not much!" - Jim Rohn


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Amy Zents Shy Singer Series: 7 Suggestions for The Day of Your Gig

                                            Today You May Be Feeling Nervous and Up In The Air

“Don't worry about a thing, every little thing is gonna be alright” - Bob Marley

So, the day of the gig has arrived. You were able to connect with a paying (or volunteer) gig.
Now, it's time to think about the number one thing that matters as a singer: PUBLIC RELATIONS.
Yes, it is good to have talent. Yes, it is good to have a gift. What matters is that you've rehearsed enough to make good music, and your audience is going to be uplifted and entertained, and you, my dear singer, will have the chance to strut your stuff!
OK. You get to the gig a half hour or so in advance, and you have all your stuff.
You may find the staff may not even have a clue you are coming. Don't ask me why.
Changeover of staff is a frequent thing in Assisted Living/Retirement Faciltiy/Nursing Homes.
1.  Just go to the front desk and ask where you need to go to set up for performing your music.
Someone will direct you. If you need a cart to haul your gear in, they will help.
Put a friendly smile on your face, think "SERVICE FIRST."
You are a servant of them today and you will one day be in a similar position (aged) so think how you want to be treated.
Be nice to all, wave and be calm. You won't be calm. You will be scared.
Yes, you are a shy singer. You are nervous. You are feeling giddy and afraid. Don't be. I've got your back. I've been there. 
2. Tell yourself, "I can do it." Tell yourself, "It's going to be FUN!" Tell yourself,"They are going to like me, and I like them!' True, many will not pay close attention, and may even fall asleep. Some will walk or wheel themselves away because they feel like it. But, trust me, the majority will stay.
Never focus on the few who may seem like party-poopers, focus on the ones who want to sing along with you or else have an attentive expression.
3.  One other fact: You are also singing for the staff. The employees who care for the retirees.
Many are young, cute and upbeat. Many are your peers.
So, as you set up and have questions about outlets or you need a glass of water, or even when and how, or who will pay you, take a huge breath and let it out slowly (without fainting) and face the music.
4. Hopefully, you won't have to do the gig alone. Although, you probably may have to if you are shy and don't have too many supporters yet.
If you have a buffer, a fellow musician, or a friendly face to come along for moral support, that is great.
Yet, you need to bite the bullet and be strong. People love singers. They will love you.
5 One other little suggestion, if I may. Sing UPBEAT SONGS. A ballad or two is OK. All ballads? The masses may start to complain. So, wake them up with songs that are cheerful, upbeat, familiar and fun.
6. Don't go overtime. 
7. Once you get started, the audience clapping will enliven you. You will be changed.
You overcame a hurdle in life. You are a stronger person.
When you are driving home, your heart will be lighter. You  will also have made a number of people's day a whole lot brighter!

                                                         A virtual bouquet for all you did today!

Next time, we will address daily practice. How do I practice?
Keep Singing!

Shy Singer Amy Zents

P.S. Confucious say: "The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential... these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence."


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Amy Zents Shy Singer Series: 7 Steps to Getting a Paying Gig.

                                            No flowers for the singer if the singer don't sing!

There is a captive audience just waiting for you, my fellow shy singer, to come out and sing for them. In today's post I will give you 7 steps to getting a paying gig.
Step 1:  Create a set list.
List 17 songs you like to sing. Can you or a friend play an instrument? If so, rehearse with accompaniment. Are you on your own and just love to sing but can't play a note? Then get a boom box and a bunch of your favorite Karaoke CD's. Your best bet is to burn all your favorite tracks onto one disc and just sing the songs in succession.
Step 2: Once you have your music and your songs, do your darndest to memorize it. If you can't, you can't. Some people's brains just can't memorize and that's that. So, what to do? Bring a music stand and a binder full of words and if necessary, guitar chords, or sheet music (depending on what you need.)
The benefits of memorization are: increased showmanship, a confidence that connects you to your audience and a lot of passion in your singing. You know, if you know the words, you can emote better. You know where you are going in the song!
Step 3: Now it goes without mentioning you gotta look and feel your best. So, plan on wearing a nice outfit, fixing your hair, and making yourself look like a star!
Step 4: Plan to bring along a mic, mic chord, and mic stand and an amplifier. Usually, you can work with an in-house sound system, but trust me, that can be risky. Using your own gear is best. You know how to use it.
Now comes the hard part.
Step 5: Look for the phone number of a local Assisted Living/Retirement Home/Nursing Home. Ask politely to speak to the Activities/Program Director. Ask nicely.  Here is your script:
"Hello, my name is ----. I am a singer who would love to come sing at your ------   Assisted Living/Retirement Home/Nursing Home. Is it possible you could direct me to the person in charge of Activities?" ("Sure, let me hook you up," the receptionist may reply, though not in those cool terms.)
Step 6: Talk to the person in charge of activities.
"Hello, my name is ----. I am a singer who would love to come sing at your ------   Assisted Living/Retirement Home/Nursing Home." ("Wonderful!" says the AD.)
Now it is up to you to do the gut-wrenching thing. Ask this:
"Do you have a budget for entertainment?" ("Yes we do.") Now, hopefully, they may offer you something like $50.   But usually they will ask, ("How much would you want?)
Now is the time to realize 2 things:
1. THIS IS NOT A BAR GIG--it is a mini-concert. 45-60 min of all you.
2. Assisted Living/Retirement Home/Nursing Homes only have a limited activities budget.
So you reply, "Well, is $25 bucks OK?  (If you feel compelled to add, "Just to cover necessary expense, time and travel. Is that OK?")
"That is fine!" will probably be the most likely reply, or else, they may say, "No, sorry, people come and play voluntarily for free here!"
Now it is up to you.
Step 7: Either accept or decline the gig. If you accept, find a date and time agreeable to you both, and mark the time and date on your calender.


In this video Amy Zents asks the group to "GET READY TO SING!"

Next time we will cover how to act and what to do on gig day!

Keep singing!
Amy Zents

P.S. “A thing of beauty is a joy forever: it’s loveliness increases; it will never pass into nothingness.”   John Keats

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Amy Zents Shy Singer Tip: Take Your "Vitamin S" Daily!

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Amy Zents Shy Singer Series: For Love and Money.

                                                      Photo-bombed at the State Fair
                                             
Today I am going to share a few anecdotes with you about some of the gigs I have done in order to get a chance to sing, and perhaps these may inspire you as well.
When I was in college I was willing to drive to Minneapolis from outstate MN once a week to sing with the MN Chorale. We would rehearse in St. Paul at a private women's college and then perform in Minneapolis at Orchestra Hall. It was fun vocalizing with all the grown-ups and the fine choral conductors who came to Minneapolis, and singing with a live symphony orchestra was fun. This I did for love and not for any money.
For money, I was willing to drive anywhere and do anything. I once got hired to sing at a birthday party for an Insurance Agent. I had to sit on his knee. After I was finished, his wife said to her husband in a loud voice, "Did you cop a feel?" Yuck!
Next, I spent one weekend in Stephens Point, Wisconsin at a retreat for New Age types where I sang a couple of shows with a buddy of mine, and I never knew how rough "rough camping" was. The mosquitoes were thick, which helped lend a hand to a phrase my husband made up: "If you're legs you're a-scratching, the eggs are a-hatching!"
I did another stint of rough camping up at WeFest one year, and there I did some busking outside a food store. I must say that did renew my faith in human goodness. As I played my guitar and sang, a number of people dropped money into my guitar case. I was surprised and delighted to find some kind soul had tossed in a bunch of one dollar coins!
It took a lot of courage to sing alone in the street, but I was determined to pay my dues!
I have tried to sing in many areas, from poorly-attended, cafe gigs where only family showed up, to festivals where people just sat around a little, then walked away while we melted in the sun. I sang for radio commercial ads such as the one for "Jetter Clean" where I was paid a small flat fee, and the jingle I recorded ran for decades. I think all in all my singing career hasn't really fulfilled my wild expectations. Nevertheless, I have recorded 2 CD's with my husband (under our band name "Molly and Sonny Boy,") and although it was thrilling and gratifying to have the recordings out on CD Baby, Amazon and iTunes, the marketing of the CD's is the big wrench in the works. If you like, you can sample our latest CD here: http://www.cdbaby.com/cd/mollysonnyboy2
True enough, if you want to sing, you have to promote yourself! Everyone is ready to suck up to you and take what they can from you. You must protect yourself, and take care of yourself. Even if you are in a band, you can't really rely on anyone to help you to stay healthy, and sane. It seems drink and drugs, sex and losers are all part of the game. The best thing to do is to avoid hanging with the negative people. There are so many people who will try and take advantage of you in many ways, if you are not wary, and don't have your head on straight.
How to get over shyness is never easy. There are some singers who are bursting with self-confidence. I have met girls who are pampered and supported by parents. Young women who have good looks and who get praise and popularity in college for their talent, and then they are never heard of again. The competition to be the best is ruthless and it takes a lot of drive to make a mark in the world of music. Most of all, besides talent and passion, one has to have a high level of self-confidence and self-esteem. It is easy to feel at ease while being a student and not having to earn money or go it on your own. I had one matriculated fellow music major tell me how much he missed college and all the singing opportunities. He complained to me how vacant those opportunities for performing were now that he had to work full-time to pay back all his student loans. Yes, making music means having time to rehearse and to perform. It costs money to make money. It takes gas and time to get to where you need to go.
Life gets in the way. Well, let's work on making time to sing. I want to hear of your singing experiences, what you have tried, what has worked for you and what hasn't. Feel free to post comments or suggestions on topics you want me to address in upcoming blog posts.
My challenge to you today is to take 20  minutes to do some vocalizing. Sing some fun Karaoke songs off YouTube or just sit down at the piano and sing some scales, or if you are a musical theatre buff, how about turning on a CD of show tunes  and stand in front of the mirror and sing a few of them to feel good. Music stops time and lifts up our spirits and makes us feel happy. Singing alone is always a pleasure. No pressure.
Here I am singing a cappella a song I wrote, "I wasn't born in 1902." http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f-PabfvnCkY
So, until next time, do what you must to sing, and build your self-esteem. The stronger you like yourself, the more you will succeed.

We all have our bad-hair days!

Next time, I will share with you a way to start getting easy gigs-painlessly.

Keep Singing!
Amy Zents

PS. "I'm not telling you it's going to be easy, I'm telling you it's going to be worth it!" :-)

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Amy Zents Shy Singer Series: We Begin.

                                                Let's Get Ready for Our Journey


Is it hard to be a singer?
Is it hard to make a living as a singer?
There are things singers are not taught in University such as marketing yourself as a singer.
In this blog we will learn about taking action, and using your valuable talent to make you into
a viable singer, someone others want to hire to perform for them.
There is something most people agree on. A good singer is easy to spot. It is not hard to tell if someone is a bad singer.
Most of all, singers don't seem to have a lot of options when it comes to being hired.
Ultimately, the first thing you (and I) have to do, as singers, is to research, and get started on finding gigs.
You, (and I) as singers have to get motivated to ask for the gig!
You can't be too picky if you want to sing.
I trained as an Opera singer. I auditioned to sing in Opera, but I was told my voice was "too light."
All that expense and I am told I should be a "pop singer."
What a joke.
There are scams in singing Academia.
Find out what your strengths are and work with them.
Get real.
Nevertheless, you will discover, essentially, if you want to be a marketable singer, you need to be versatile or you will be limited.
The limits on successful singers spill out in many directions.
Location, physical health, family relationships, personal appearance and personal experiences that discouraged you in the past, not to mention all the competition, demonstrate you have challenges.
This blog will help you find the resources and get the information you need to make lots of money as a singer.
We need to find solutions to Singer's problems.
I created this blog because I needed some answers to my Singing problems.
How do I find gigs? How do I market and target my gifts to make a living as a Singer?
If there are 250,000 music teaching openings in the US and only 25,000 singing jobs, there needs to a way we shy singers can learn how to market and package our own talents.
Really, our shyness and lack of confidence is holding us back.
We are similar, you and I. Singing is cool and singing is fun, but selling ourselves and our singing talents can be very hard and very frustrating, and usually it is ourselves who are standing in our own way!!
I hope together we can discover the solutions to our challenges as Singers.
I will give you all my experiences and share the successes I have in getting better and better at asking for the gig.
I want you to let me know what you do to overcome your singing shyness and share your talents with the world too!
Let me show you a video of me singing and see that I have talent, but I am shy.
http://youtu.be/e0qX5f-0474
I am passionate about singing, but it is powerful to find networks for singers to help each other to market ourselves.

                                                             Singer Amy Zents

Next time, I will write to you all the crazy gigs I have done over the years just to sing!

Keep Singing!
Amy Zents

P.S. “And when we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.  As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”   Nelson Mandela 

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