“Don't worry about a thing, every little thing is gonna be alright” - Bob Marley
So, the day of the gig has arrived. You were able to connect with a paying (or volunteer) gig.
Now, it's time to think about the number one thing that matters as a singer: PUBLIC RELATIONS.
Yes, it is good to have talent. Yes, it is good to have a gift. What matters is that you've rehearsed enough to make good music, and your audience is going to be uplifted and entertained, and you, my dear singer, will have the chance to strut your stuff!
OK. You get to the gig a half hour or so in advance, and you have all your stuff.
You may find the staff may not even have a clue you are coming. Don't ask me why.
Changeover of staff is a frequent thing in Assisted Living/Retirement Faciltiy/Nursing Homes.
1. Just go to the front desk and ask where you need to go to set up for performing your music.
Someone will direct you. If you need a cart to haul your gear in, they will help.
Put a friendly smile on your face, think "SERVICE FIRST."
You are a servant of them today and you will one day be in a similar position (aged) so think how you want to be treated.
Be nice to all, wave and be calm. You won't be calm. You will be scared.
Yes, you are a shy singer. You are nervous. You are feeling giddy and afraid. Don't be. I've got your back. I've been there.
2. Tell yourself, "I can do it." Tell yourself, "It's going to be FUN!" Tell yourself,"They are going to like me, and I like them!' True, many will not pay close attention, and may even fall asleep. Some will walk or wheel themselves away because they feel like it. But, trust me, the majority will stay.
Never focus on the few who may seem like party-poopers, focus on the ones who want to sing along with you or else have an attentive expression.
3. One other fact: You are also singing for the staff. The employees who care for the retirees.
Many are young, cute and upbeat. Many are your peers.
So, as you set up and have questions about outlets or you need a glass of water, or even when and how, or who will pay you, take a huge breath and let it out slowly (without fainting) and face the music.
4. Hopefully, you won't have to do the gig alone. Although, you probably may have to if you are shy and don't have too many supporters yet.
If you have a buffer, a fellow musician, or a friendly face to come along for moral support, that is great.
Yet, you need to bite the bullet and be strong. People love singers. They will love you.
5 One other little suggestion, if I may. Sing UPBEAT SONGS. A ballad or two is OK. All ballads? The masses may start to complain. So, wake them up with songs that are cheerful, upbeat, familiar and fun.
6. Don't go overtime.
7. Once you get started, the audience clapping will enliven you. You will be changed.
You overcame a hurdle in life. You are a stronger person.
When you are driving home, your heart will be lighter. You will also have made a number of people's day a whole lot brighter!
Next time, we will address daily practice. How do I practice?
Keep Singing!
Shy Singer Amy Zents
P.S. Confucious say: "The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential... these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence."
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