It's easier to perform with a partner than alone
So you are about to perform and you are shy, and really, really nervous. What's a singer to do?
I think the best thing you should do is PRACTICE PAUSING. What this means is, take a moment or two to breathe deeply, and calm down.
Try to get to the gig early. Gauge your audience. Is it big or is it small? Or in between?
Also, get to know the space you will be performing in.
Look the way you want to look. Present your image at it's best. You be in control.
You will love being the centre of attention. I guarantee it. You just need some help to get going.
Unless you are playing for an audience of jealous contemporaries, your audience wants you to win!
So, if you've rehearsed enough, and you've made enough progress to be engaged at a gig, it's time to get on with the show!
Don't let jangled nerves and butterflies be a sign that you are ill-prepared and don't know what the heck you are doing.
If that is the case, then stay home!
If you are only nervous because you are afraid to perform in public, well then, that is a horse of a different color.
You can do it, and with the experience you got in doing it, the next time it will be easier.
Remember, you are doing it for the love of the music. Try not to be so SELF-conscious. In fact, studies show people who are shy are often perceived as being SELFISH!
We know that is not really the case. So, swallow your pride and show them what you've got!
I'm smiling and cheering for you! :-)
Keep singing,
Amy Zents
PS. 'Faint heart never won fair lady!'" - Ancient Proverb
